Hearing people that they have lost a family or someone close who committed suicide is devastating and mind-boggling. You would definitely feel sorry for the people left behind and the person who died as well. Questions would cross your mind asking yourself or people: What is the reason for the person to commit suicide? Or what triggered this person that made him want to take an end with his life? Here are the common reasons why people put an end on their lives and commit suicide.
10. Family Feuds
Family feuds and siblings rivalry are common in the society, what is alarming to this is that it is one of the reasons why people commit suicide. Family members fighting among each other because of money, miscommunication or even misunderstanding, these things may pile up from one another and someone may just give up and think of committing suicide would be the best solution.
9. Money Matters
Some people bury themselves to the grave along with the debts that costs a huge amount, and because they do not know how to pay back their debts, they commit suicide instead. Most people who take their own life due to money are also linked with vices such as gambling, illegal drugs, alcohol, and even excessive shopping, or just a high cost of living that does not really match the person’s financial capacity.
8. Attention Seeker
You do not notice people who seek for attention until he is lifeless because he killed himself already. They are crying out for help but you seldom see their presence and their need for your attention. You are not aware of the problems they are encountering or sometimes you think that they are just fine when in fact they are already having thoughts of killing themselves.
Achievements and success for others are their priceless possessions in life, and when they experience failure or things becomes unsuccessful, they feel that this is unacceptable and they cannot forgive themselves for being a failure or for losing, so they think that the solution is to commit suicide.
Children and women are the most common people who go through different kinds of abuse such as physical, emotional, sexual and verbal abuse. They feel helpless with what is happening to them and think that dying is better than living in their situation, thus they commit suicide.
5. Gender Confusion
Bisexuality and Homosexuality is now rampant in our society, and people of all ages are experiencing this. Acceptance of their sexuality is important for them and when people, families most especially, are having a hard time to accept who they are, they feel unloved and neglected. This results to an unwanted act of committing suicide.
4. Mentally ill
Inner voices that sick people hear in their minds may have mental disorder like schizophrenia or bipolar. When the voices inside their head are telling them to do something bad, they follow them. Sometimes this is really disturbing because their life is at risk. Although medication can be provided, these people still have high tendencies of attempting suicide.
This is mostly triggered by alcohol and drugs, when people are into substance abuse and be drugged or highly intoxicated, they become impulsive especially if they are having problems, and tend to commit suicide in the end.
For some people, their job is their life, of course how can you live without making money or working. Employment is very important most especially if you are the bread winner. Men in particular commit suicide if they lose their job, there has been a study made about this that Japanese men have risk of taking their own life when they become unemployed.
Depression is the most common reason of suicide attempts. With a low self-esteem and strength to overcome depression, the person will definitely think of attempting to harm himself by committing suicide.