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Top 10 signs you are just a friend, not a boyfriend.

Top 10 signs you are just a friend, not a boyfriend.

So you’ve finally managed to get “the one” lady into your life. You’re probably asking yourself, does she want to get closer? Or will she slap you with the biggest “F” word known to the dating game – “F for Friend?”

If a lady signals any of this friendly indicators then its best to get up and run!

Top 10 signs you are just a friend, not a boyfriend.

10. She’s not on toes with you

If romance is there then tension is inevitable. A lady interested will show suspense in her behavior. She will be wondering whether you like her or not and or what you are going to do next. Her anxiousness will therefore show in the way she behaves around you. If she is entirely at ease around you, then, that’s something to worry about.

9. You’re jokes are not at all funny.

The significance of making a woman laugh can never be undermined. Being humorous is usually at the top of a woman’s attraction wish list. An interested woman will laugh at any of your jokes even if they are not funny! If you are trying hard to make her laugh then she is not at all interested.

8. She tries to hook you up with other women.

If she is shifting you attention from her to other women then that’s a red flag. When a lady, as single as she may be, tries to hook you up with other ladies, she is basically telling you that she is not the one for you.

When you are out for a beer, then she looks across the counter a spots a lady alone then she asks you “she is cute isn’t she?” then welcome to friend-land pal.

7. Always gets what she wants?

When you’re hanging out, ever found yourself at women’s hang out spots and boutiques? Does she always get you to watch her kind of movies? Has she ever accompanied you to a sports bar to watch your favorite team play? When was the last time you did things that matter to you with her?

Any woman with intimate interest will find it in her to accommodate your interests.

6. “We are just friends?”

She uses the worst word you could ever wish to hear from her, the “friends” word. If she calls you “friend” then panties aren’t going down south my friend, forget it! You never want to be friends with a girl you’re attracted to.

5. She keeps her distance in public.

If she is not interested with you then she doesn’t want to be seen as though she is. She will try as much as possible to avoid hanging out with you at date spots like coffee shops, movies or the dinner. If you out clubbing she will avoid her friends spotting her or will most probably tag another friend of hers.

4. She frequently asks for favors like you owe her

If she is regularly asking more favors than your company or attention then she is not interested in any intimate relations with you. Always being there for her hoping that she will fall in love with you will eventually do more harm than good for you.

3. She tags her friends along.

When she is coming to meet you she will always tag along with a friend or even two. She clearly avoids you two spending time alone. She is doing this to avoid any possibility of a romantic spark.

2. She avoids touch and body contacts.

Any interested lady will stroke your arms, lightly take makes at you and hold your hands. If you’ve gone out for quite a while and she hasn’t tried out any of this then she is not interested. It is not a matter of who makes the first move; it is clear that she is keeping her distance and wants to keep it that way.

1. She talks of other men.

This is probably the killer. If she keeps bring up the ex guy in every conversation or commenting on all hot guys she sets her eyes on, then dude just forget it. There is possibly no chance for both of you because if whatever she is seeing in those other guys she can see in you then you probably should stop wasting your time.

I sucks being friend zoned, it is better to get out while you can.

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