Marriages don’t promise a life without problems. You will be going through a lot with your spouse. But how do you know when enough is enough. Here are the top 10 signs your marriage is headed for divorce.
(10) Conversations full of anger
Is every conversation harsh? Do you start asking about dinner and end up shouting at each other? This is a clear sign that you can’t take each other’s presence anymore.
(9) No one cares what the other one is doing
Do you lack follow up on each other’s whereabouts? Do you still care about your spouse’s issues with work or his career? Not caring is equal to not loving. This is another clear sign your marriage is on the rocks.
(8) Piled up Issues
Couples sometimes don’t talk about problems that need to be dealt with. Try to assess how many issues in the past you were not able to resolve. The more issues you have, the more likely you are to separate ways.
(7) No more alone time with each other
Do you still go out on dates with your partner? It is important to keep the fire burning even if you are busy with work or even if you have children already. Being busy is not an excuse, most probably, you just refuse to have alone time with your spouse.
(6) No one wants to compromise
One of the most important things in a relationship is the ability to compromise. You know your marriage is in trouble if no one wants to give way for the other’s comfort.
(5) There is infidelity going on
Cheating is bad. And someone who loves you and cherishes your marriage would never attempt to cheat. Infidelity is unacceptable the first time, the second time and so on and so forth. Who knows, both of you could even be cheating on each other.
(4) No more sharing
Money is something that married couples should always talk about. The budget at home should be divides equally among husband and wife. Couples bound for break ups don’t want to share money or find ways to get out of their financial responsibilities.
(3) Staying together for the kids
One mistake that most couples do is to stay together for the sake of other people like the kids. If you must stay with someone, make sure that you do it for yourself and not for the benefit of someone else. Otherwise, you will never be happy.
(2) Physical quarrels
Sad to say, some couples really end up hurting each other physically because of too much overwhelming emotions like anger or jealousy. This is why it is important to just talk it out instead of shouting at each other and slowly throwing stuff around and then eventually throwing punches at each other.
(1) Planning alone
For a family, there is always a future to plan. And planning is a process that both the husband and wife should be involved in. This could be as light as planning dinner with one parent missing or thinking of relocating your residence without getting the opinion of the other.